Baby Squared

Have we reached Peak Cuteness?

 Every time I can't think the girls can't get any more adorable, they do. Starting when they were around seven or eight months old, I think I started saying, "this is it. This is the best age ever. They can't possibly get any cuter  than this." And then, by golly, they did. They did even funnier more engaging things. They said even cuter stuff. There was, admittedly, a brief period between eighteen and twenty-four months, when I was just as likely to say "It can't possibly get any harder than this..." But the past few months, things have definitely been on the upswing again.

 

And seriously, two-and-a-half -- today, exactly! -- has got to be the cutest possible age. It's gotta all be downhill after here, right? The girls still have a bit of that baby pudge and innocence. They still have the un-self-consciously gleeful giggles of toddlers, and take pleasure in simple things -- running around in circles and falling down on the grass, putting stickers on themselves, digging in the dirt. They like to cuddle. But they're also curious and aware of what's going on around them (I'm constantly surprised by how much they remember and pick up on.) They "read" books by themselves. And they talk -- Lord, how they talk. They crack us up on an almost daily basis with the stuff that comes out of their mouths. (Me: Clio, what is your stuffed doggie named? Clio: Cpthtoth. Me: What? Cpthoth?  Clio: Yeah, Gaby Gaby Cpthoth.)

 

A lot of what they say is based, of course, on the words and phrasing we use. (Cpthoth and other apparently Elfin/Celtic words aside.) For Elsa, lately, the key word is "maybe." As in the other morning when she and Clio were in our bedroom while I was getting dressed and were trying on various pairs of my shoes. Elsa, while shuffling around in a pair of my flats, tilted her head to the side in her best toddler-coquette fashion and said, "So, maybe I could wear your shoes, Mommy?" (If it turns out she's the same size shoe as me when she's a teenager, I am in serious trouble.)

 

Another phrase they're both fond of is "how about." This is deployed chiefly as a negotiating tactic, usually for food. This morning, for example, after eating two entire homemade Belgian waffles, Clio asked if she could have a cracker (?) and I said, no, we weren't having crackers for breakfast, but she could have a peach or a banana if she wanted. Her reply "How about some pretzels?" 

 

Live blog moment -- as I am writing this, Alastair is giving the girls a bath, and singing (to the tune of "row your boat") "row, row, row your poo poo, gently down the stinky..." And the girls are cracking up. And Clio is singing: "Row row row ro, down the down the stinky!"  You can see what a sophisticated family we are.

 

Yes, yes. Peak cuteness. And here are some pictures to prove it, from a backyard BBQ at Aunt Heidi's house. (Photo credits to her as well.)

 

 

 

 Me: Here, just choke up on this thing. Or something. Score a touchdown. Or whatever.

 

 

 

Me: Elsa, that's not for you. That's beer, for grown-ups to drink.

Elsa: When I'm a little bit older, I can drink this!

Clio: (Thinks to herself) How about some wine?

 

 

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Comments

 

Melissa said:

Clio looks like "We're not going to get into any trouble just for looking at it, are we?"  I think she's possibly concerned about her future political career.

I think cuteness starts going downhill after 5 or 6...so you've still got a few years to go.

June 28, 2009 10:10 PM
 

T's mom said:

I never realized how much I say "how about" until my guys started saying it all the time... as in "how 'bout maya (banana)" "how 'bout boobies (blueberries)" "how 'bout fishies". Funny that it's always in relation to food. Oh and the boobies for blueberries thing is pretty embarrasing when we're at the grocery store and he yells for boobies at the top of his lungs! :-)

June 29, 2009 9:18 AM
 

Patty said:

Alex is approaching 3, and while he is losing some of the baby look, he's just so continually amazing that the cuteness factor increases regardless.  He's got a better sense of humor than we do some days! Why, just this morning I made a very bad pun, and Alex was the one to crack up over it.  I actually had to *explain* it to his father. :)

June 29, 2009 12:14 PM
 

Melanie said:

Oh yes, my 2-1/2 year old is very fond of "When I'm a little bit older..." such as "When I a little bit older, I can wear your necklace" or "When I a little bit older, I can watch Nemo".  It kills me every time!

June 29, 2009 3:26 PM
 

Tracey said:

I have felt the same way through every single stage of my 3 year old's life. HOW could she get cuter?! How is it remotely possible? So here I am at 3 years, 1.5 months telling you I don't see an end in sight to cuteness! And given the cute factor of your girls, you've definitely got a looong time before you peak!

As an aside, I just found out I am having twins (is it bad that the first word that keeps coming to mind is that I have been "diagnosed" with twins?!) I feel panicked, awe struck, amazed and scared sh%tless. All normal feelings I presume?? Does it ever sink in throughout the pregnancy or do you birth two babies and finally go "hmm, guess it's real"?!!

June 30, 2009 3:58 PM
 

Corina said:

aaahhh peak cuteness...good news , you  haven't even scratched the surface yet. Just wait until one is the baby and the other is the mommy looking after her. Or they start playing dress ups and tell each other what to do.  Or get a crush on Pwince Ewic. I got a huge dose today- the girls holding hands at the lake discovering that with floatie armbands on- they could float! Ours regularly use the phrase "watcha doing guys?" to ummm, everyone.

Tracey..alll normal feelings .... "guess it's real" will definitely click in real fast when they arrive...although I'm still often in a state of disbelief but feel so lucky.

June 30, 2009 9:17 PM
 

Roper said:

Tracey, congratulations on your impending twins! Yes, all those feelings are very normal -- I even had times (I will admit) where I wished I wasn't having twins. Of course, now I wouldn't trade it for the world. It did start to feel more real to me once I could feel both of them moving, each in very distinct ways, and got a sense of their temperaments. But yeah, it didn't really hit until I was holding two babies in my arms!

I started writing this blog when my girls were 6 mos. old, so if you keep going back (unfortunately it's not easy to jump back to older posts) you can get a taste of what the early months with twins are like. Or if you want to get a peek of the really early days, I kept a personal blog during my pregnancy and the girls' first months: janescalamity.blogspot.com

Best of luck!

July 1, 2009 7:06 PM

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