A definite check in the "positives" column for having twin toddlers: getting to hear them talk to each other. Yesterday morning, while I was getting ready for work, the girls woke up and I overheard the following conversation:
Elsa: (excited) I making a big poopie, Kee-o!
Clio: (No response)
Elsa: (Even more excited) I make a BIG poopie, Kee-o!
Clio: (Conciliatory) That's OK, Elsa.
What's funniest to me is hearing them using phrases Alastair and I use, with the same intonation. (No, "I make a big poopie" is not one of these. Though I guess we've been known to say "wow -- you made a big poopie." To the girls, that is.) A popular one right now is "Be right back!" -- often with hands held up, palms out. Sometimes it means they're going to the other side of the room, but sometimes it means they're going to attempt to go upstairs or outside or somewhere else I'd rather they didn't go without my supervision. No matter where they're headed, it's quite clear that I'm supposed to stay put while they run their "errand." (Just as I expect them to stay put when I say "be right back" and run downstairs to change the laundry or upstairs to get something, etc. etc.)
Clio will often gently chide Elsa if she's doing something Clio doesn't approve of: "No, ELsa," she'll say -- sounding very much a bossy big sister (though she's 9 minutes younger). Meanwhile, Elsa doesn't scold Clio much, but does like to check in with her and make sure she's taken care of. Last night at dinner, for example, she asked for a piece of bread. As I went to get it for her, I heard her say, "You want bread, Kee-o?"
People often ask me if they have any sort of "twin talk" between them, and I can't say that I've ever noticed anything along these lines. They seem to speak to each other in the same toddler-English they use with us, though they do seem to be a little more tuned into each other's pronunciation. There have been times when I can't figure out what one of them is trying to say or ask for, and the other offers a translation of sorts. There are also times when the two of them just crack each other up, and -- as with any good inside joke -- I can't quite figure out what's so funny. But they obviously think it's hilarious. I love that they can make each other laugh. (Anyone out there have experiences with actual "twin talk"? I'm so curious to know what it's like and if it really happens...)
The only drawback to all this sisterly gabbing: once they start, it can be hard for them to stop. A couple of times recently we haven't been able to get them to settle down and take their nap because they're having such a grand old time babbling back and forth to each other, throwing stuffed animals and books into each other's cribs, talking about their bowel movements, etc.
On the flip side, some mornings when they wake up they're content just to chat amongst themselves for awhile, so A. and I can stay in bed a little longer. And sleepily, smilingly eavesdrop on those precious conversations.