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Now that the girls have got some serious hair on their heads -- well, Elsa does, anyway -- we're faced with what to do about it: long, luscious locks or pert, sassy bobs? Clips and elastics or wild style? Naturally luminous color or playful highlights and sultry lowlights? (Just kidding!)

 

Elsa's got significantly more hair at this point, and I've pretty much decided (me being self-appointed style consultant for my daughters, God help them) that we're going to grow Elsa's bangs out. She appears to have inherited my hair, which is thick and grows fast, as well as my somewhat low forehead, so I'm thinking this is the right look for her. And more importantly, easier for us to manage. She's getting better at actually keeping barettes in her hair when we put them in, instead of immediately pulling them out. The trick is not to make a big deal of it. So, please, if you ever see Elsa in person, don't say "Oooh! Look at your pretty barette!" because she'll remember it's there and take it out. Just be cool. Be like "hey, nice shizz." Or whatever.

 

Really, you think it looks good? 

 

 

OK, I'm convinced -- I love this look! 

 

Clio's hair is finer (like her Dad's) and doesn't seem to be coming in as quickly or growing as fast, especially on top. She's got a bit of a mullet going on, which I plan to remedy soon. But we think she can really rock the bangs look, so we're gonna go with that. Also, she has no patience for barettes. More specifically, she likes having a barette put in -- whenever Elsa's got one, she has to have one, too -- but she immediately takes it out, then hands it to me to put back in again. I'll do this about three times before we say "bye bye" to the barette. And then I just have to hope she won't go and pull Elsa's barette out.

 

I've got to get this thing off my head...

 

Do it again, mom!

 

Elsa, who increasingly seems to think of Clio as her own life-sized doll, also thinks it's fun to attempt to style Clio's hair. Clio isn't so into it. (There was crying shortly after this picture was taken.)

 

 

Oh, and if you're salivating over Clio's adorable corduroy overalls, I'm sorry to say that this fashion statement can no longer be made. This outfit also came from my mother's attic stash; my little brother wore them, circa 1978 (with a bowl cut, natch).

 


Comments

 

Traci said:

Mom to Mom tip: I used to hand my little girl a hair clip or two, and then put one in her hair.  Since she already had her hands full of them, she wouldn't immediately yank it out - and then the minimal attention span would work in my favor for once, and she'd move on completely.  Good luck!

April 13, 2008 8:20 PM
 

Amy said:

That's funny, I totally was salivating over the overalls.  They are adorable.  The girls look like they are having so much fun!

April 13, 2008 8:22 PM
 

Eva said:

I struggled with barrettes for a couple of months, with similar pulling out of them (plus with my son wanting one any time my daughter got one, and it's just not a good look for baldy boy).

Then I discovered toddler headbands (photos here):

sarahandjordanll.blogspot.com/.../omnipotence.html

Available cheap at Target. My son likes those, too, but it gives him more of the, I just played tennis look. And after 2 short weeks of putting them in every day, she started keeping them in and even putting them back when they come out. Plus I worry less about her falling on the exact spot of a barrette and causing a huge gash in her head (yes, I'm that kind of mom).

April 13, 2008 9:41 PM
 

Tracey said:

Those girls are adorable. When it comes to barrettes, please clip them as attractively as possible. In the 70s, (as a small girl, of course), my chances in the world would've been much better if I'd had a Jan Brady arrangement of barrettes, (hair slightly pulled back away from face), but instead my mother clipped them very close to the middle of my face, strictly for practical purposes, and it was hideous.

She's a hairdresser! I think she did it on purpose. It was horrible. I have a friend whose mother MADE her tan in the sun and cut her hair off like the old school Parent Trap Haley Mills and it did NOT flatter. Don't be THAT mom!

April 13, 2008 10:38 PM
 

An said:

I followed the link to your little bro's website... talented family, his music is really good.  I live around him, I might go see him play sometime.  I love your column, keep up the good work! :-)

April 14, 2008 12:21 AM
 

Laura said:

Shoot - my first thought was "ooh, good overalls, wonder where she got them?"

April 14, 2008 6:30 AM
 

Juliet said:

Great info on the experience of parenting twins!  I thought you and your readers may be interested to meet a set of twins who are both competing to quliafy for the Beijing Olympics.  There is a great video on NBCOlympics.com giving a little peak into their life:

http://www.nbcolympics.com/

April 14, 2008 10:16 AM
 

cathy Burke said:

Too cute!  With two boys I always tease my husband we are saving a fortune on hair accessories alone!

April 14, 2008 3:25 PM
 

betty said:

i live in fear of cutting "dumb and dumber" bangs for my daughter. but she won't have the barettes either. they're in. they're out. they're in. they're out. over. it. so it's bangs. bangs with a mullet, no less. i'm pretty close to getting canned as fashion consultant. and so i should.

April 14, 2008 9:31 PM
 

bookmama said:

Honestly, those button overalls were the first thing I spotted and immediately had to know where you got them. Maybe you can auction them off?

April 14, 2008 11:02 PM
 

Roper said:

Eva -- I love the hairbands! So cute! I'll definitely keep an eye out for those next time I'm in Tar-jay.

April 16, 2008 4:26 PM

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